Being a single millennial woman in a big city isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. With populations growing every day, finding decent single men becomes more like shooting fish in an ocean rather than a barrel.

What you need is a small city! We’re not talking about small cities with one traffic light — we’re talking about small cities that offer all the dating possibilities of a big city but without all the competition from your fellow single ladies.

Using Jonathan Soma’s 2013 Interactive Singles Map, we found the 19 Best Small Cities for Single Millennial Women. Not only does each city have a population of less than 100,000, making it easier to meet high-quality men, but each city also has tons of cool date ideas, which we’ve listed below.

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